Women in Development Organizations...#WomenInDevOrgs

Join the Women in development organization as they work on increasing the awareness of how women make a difference and promote female role models in the international development sector. 

To do this, they would want you and I to spread the diversified roles women co-workers have in global development organizations. Recognise and promote the female colleagues or teams you believe are doing great job in this sector by posting photos of them in your social media networks with the hashtag #WomenInDevOrgs.

It doesn't have to be women in high positions or future Nobel peace price laureates. It doesn't also have to be someone else. If you are a woman (or a group of female colleagues) working in global development and are proud of what you do, then join the campaign and share a photo of who you are.

Post a photo and write a few words about the women you want to recognise, the organization they work for, where they work and their role. Post on your accounts on Instagram, twitter, Vine, Facebook and Google +

If you don't have any of the social media above - send your photo and text to womenindevorgs@unjobfinder.org and it will be posted to their account on Instagram. You can also let them know if you want to appear as anonymous.

Whoop! Whoop!!....something new is coming....

BRAND NEW!!! It's TINGO MOBILE!!! There's a TINGO mobile ambassador search. Have you got what it takes??? Then WATCH THIS SPACE....

Follow on twitter and instagram: @tingomobileng @luchicutie 

Proud Christians....

Thanks to this family who took their time to show me they are proud Christians. Thanks to Jebutu. I am a proud Christian baller.

My Everything...by PU

When you make Jesus your everything, I doubt if there's anything you'd ask for. This brings us to the new album of a man of God coming up pretty soon.

The talented Keyboardist and Gospel Artiste, Pastor Uvie Mafuru, well known as P.U, has followed his love for Music and committed his life to writing and singing songs that bring healing to the Nations of the world. He has ministered alongside the Man of God, Pastor Chris at various ministry programs in Nigeria, South Africa, Zimbabwe, US, Canada and the United Kingdom. He  released his debut album “Greater Heights” in November 2012 and dropped the single “You Are A Wonder” in February 2013. P.U as he is called has worked with the likes of Adaehi, Sinach, joepraize, just to mention a few.

P.U is set to drop another album, titled "My everything". We expect nothing less from this powerful singer. 

Instagram: pu4life

Facebook: Uvie PU Mafuru 

The journey, The decision, The wait.....

While in secondary school, we already think of gaining admission into tertiary institutions. The anxiety, the freedom, the independence, the joy of being called an undergraduate sets in. The last stage of the secondary comes through, and *yipee* we made it through, good grades and yes that other dreadful exam- JAMB, we sit for it, hold on for days, back then we waited for months for the result, thanks to technology. Yes, yes, yes....we scored above 200, choice of school (check), accommodation (check), department (check). A new life is upon us, 4 years, 5 years, 6 years....number of years for our different courses. The excitement of being an undergraduate stays in our hearts for a while, we want to explore, we try to belong, we want to be noticed, we want to hide, we want to be the best dressed, whatever category, we just have to fit in. A semester gone, it begins to sink in, school isn't as easy as we though it would be. Oh no, the grades are weak and to some, oh yes, yes, i'm doing just good. 

Three years down and all we think of is "oh God, when do we graduate??? I'm so sick and tired of this school, want to get a job, want to start my family, want to this, want to that...... the struggle to write project, defend, clearance and yes the final lap, service, still excited about graduation not realising we have to serve our fathers' land for just a year, we get caught up in the khaki, we feel it's a rest period out of school. Then we sleep and up the next morning.....POP comes to us. Welcome to the favor market, oh lots of prayers, lots of promises ( don't worry dear, once you have your statement of result and your NYSC certificate) I will fix you up somewhere. 

Now the real world awaits us, the hustle begins in full force. The submission of cvs, the wait, the interviews, the unfulfilled promises. A messenger of hope comes through and it rings to our hearts, "go for a certification" and to some "go for your masters" and to some "just accept that 40k job, afterall you just finished", we pick one or two or none. The decision we make is what we live with. And the race continues......

Attention span....

Those who say relationships are all moments of bliss and euphoria aren't totally wrong but they miss to talk about the down side. Because good relationships have those "down days". Relationships are all about feelings. Love isn't just happy times, it is terrifying especially knowing you're neck-deep in love, it can be nasty. 

Truth is, if you have to be in a relationship, you have signed up for the roller coaster ride. You need to step out of the "fairy tale" living. 

Was having a chat with a friend today and she was all about her relationship, in her words, "Clare, I don't understand again o, when I met **** we were all lovey lovey, he calls every minute, you know, I was the reigning queen at the Mo' but 7 months down, he doesn't call as often as he used to, hardly would notice my new hair, his attention isn't the same as it used to be.......And then she asked, "why does the attention reduce after a while??? She says it's the "see-finish syndrome". 

Well I'm sure one or two would have an answer to this question.

So guys, why does you attention span fade after a while in a relationship???  

Your body and your character....

Morning ya'll, welcome to Tuesday and welcome to my friend's corner where she writes on "the body and the character". Watch out for subsequent posts (Tuesdays and Thursdays) as she writes on relationships and things you should know about aviation (safety tips and scheduling,etc). Enjoy this piece from Gift:

The way an astronaut needs a space suit to function on the moon is the same way we need our body to function on this planet. Our body is designed with very unique resources given to us by God with natural and healthy cravings like food, drink, sex, touch etc. Our body and its cravings have tremendous impact on our lives.

The human spirit has the capacity to affect the body and vice-verse. However, it’s our responsibility to make corresponding changes in our emotions, mind and our body. Being controlled by your body is a sign of weakness and spiritual immaturity because God has given us the power to dominate our body. Let’s not allow our physical body destroy us. It’s vital to pay attention to what we do with our physical body.

Tips that can help us:

• Change should begin from the inside
• Present your body to God to use
• Resist the temptation to abuse your body
• Don't idolize or over-pamper your body
• Take proper care of your body - keep it clean, eat good food, sleep well, exercise etc.

Gift Jonah is a commercial system analyst who has great experience in aviation, a business woman and loves to write. 

Twitter: charminggift16

Facebook: Gift  S Jonah

NAT 102 by El Poiz©

From previous posts, we see the first steps to 'gaining hair freedom' is;
1)The decision; Transition or instant Bigchop
2)Sham wash;washing with a sulphate-free shampoo
3)A good Hair regimen; I gave a simple hair regimen I selected.

I shall discuss each extensively today and in subsequent weeks;

Transitioning
So many naturalistas find it a whole lot easier having an instant bigchop than transitioning...transitioning is actually quite a handful when compared to the bigchop...I transitioned for about a year before having my big chop though
'NEED-TO-KNOW while transitioning'
In transitioning, you deal with two different hair textures which is why you should not fail to give your hair TLC(Tender Loving Care)
Your hair will tend to break at the point where your chemical-treated ends meet your natural hair, due to this, regular trimming of the relaxed ends is highly advisable. In applying your natural treatments, you should ensure they get to your roots and come in contact with the natural parts(undergrowth) too.
A spritz bottle is a must have for every naturalista. It contains 80%water and 20% oil of your choice and should be sprayed twice daily to the hair to keep it moisturised. For how a spritz bottle is, see the picture after this cut;

During transitioning and after, a good hair regimen should not be overlooked(we'll discuss the hair regimen later on).
Washing hair weekly with a sulphate-free shampoo(sham wash) or a sulphate-free conditioner(co wash) should be at the top on your to-do-list. Be sure to shamwash either once a week or once a month and not too often as regular shamwash strips the hair of its natural oils
*Products for Naturals


When buying hair products, the following ingredients should be avoided;
-Sodium laurel/Laurly sulfate/SLS/SLES
-Paraben
-Mineral oil
-Petrolatum/Petroluem jelly
-DEA,TEA,MEA
-FD & C color pigments
-Imidazolidinyl Urea
-DMDM Hydantoin
-Chlorine-Silicon
-Paraffin
-Propylene Glycol
-Isopropyl Alcohol.

So Ladies, see you same place next week. El Poiz©...feel beautiful

Death is Alive by Isaac Mendez Miebi

Death is more alive than any living being; we die in our mind, and at times, we let the flesh perish. Often ignored but never forgotten it is the most attached concept to a living mind.

I seem like the normal silent shadow
I am fixed to life like a window
My casual friends are pain and sorrow
I am always the nemesis of tomorrow

I am intuitive, but constantly timeless
In the end every being shall confess:
That they just exist for my function
And by nature I am a fierce structure.

Like rainy days I bring tears
Like a hurricane I possess fear
The clothe of nothingness is what I wear
Eventually I come, either for one far or near

I live because I am death
I am the genesis of the end.

MCM....

And our Monday crush is Isioma Ofuasia aka Wizboyy known for his highlife music. The multi talented artiste hails from Umunede in Delta. A graduate of Statistics from the University of Nigeria. He is best known for his singles: Screensaver, Owu Sa Gi, Fotogenik and Infinit and has worked with the big names in the industry: Flavour, J.Martins, Ice Prince, 9ice, just to mention a few.

Instagram: @wizboyy

The Next Miracle could be yours.....

A new week has come upon us, ladies and gentlemen *smiles*. Another week to make it right. Stay strong, Pray, Eat well, exercise well and you're good to go. Don't forget to show a little kindness to someone. 

For those expecting a job, contract, signed business proposal, and even that life partner, keep calm okay? Your miracle is here. Trust and believe these words cos this thing called Miracle happens.

Here I Am....by Jonathan Houston

I am so excited to share this with you. I have been blessed after reading this super motivating book. I should share my copy with someone this week. Enjoy!

    LET'S MEET YOU...

My name is Jonathan Houston.  I am the author of my first book Here I AM, by which I was commissioned to write at 9 years old after an instance when my Christian mother had again terrorized me in our home. The Father in Heaven had personally asked me to write a book journaling my abusive past, specifically those of my Christian mother— all the world will know why so many abuses and painful secrets go hidden, so all parents will know to review those whom watch their child by surveying their heart and not their charm or credentials, so all the world will know that secrets can destroy a person, a family, a lineage, a city, a state and local government, and even the greatest nation in the world. I was born in Los Angeles, CA when my parents together left the southern states to chase a dream to be successful actors (In the 1800s men would chase gold.  At the end of the 20th century men and women chased the dream of being a star.  Only few come up with plenty; the rest come up empty.).

    HOW WAS GROWING UP LIKE???

Within the first 3 years of my life my parents moved to divorce.  I was now raised thousands of miles away from the heart of my lineage, and I lived in a single-parent home with my mother. My father has always been very much in my life.  Many of my abuses have stemmed from daycares, camps and persons my parents trusted with me whom were outside our family circle of friends.  There was no abuse that could compare to the abuse laid bare by my Christian mother.

While both of my parents carried the same aspirations to be a star and have a successful acting career, the heavy laden of financial burdens rested on my mother’s shoulders.  Ultimately her tension was often released via brash abuses which began being inflicted upon me prior to reaching the age of 4.  Many have become humorously accustomed to the saying “beat me like a runaway slave”; moreover, this was my life within the confines of my home.  Since my mother’s profession served as an actress, and her image was a heightened concern, my mother knew how to change my mood to a joyous one when we were visiting company or when company was visiting us (This was usually following an abusive happening with my mother). 

   HOW DID YOU GO THROUGH THE ABUSES???

One of the many reasons no one knew of the abuses being hurled on me from my Christian mother, is because I did have an honest smile when my mother was indeed kind to me.  The second reason is because abuse was introduced in my life so early I thought it was a natural part of life.  I didn’t even admit I was abused until I was about 19 years old while learning the hints of a child being abused in my Child Psychology course while studying in my Undergraduate courses.  The third reason is because I was a meek child.  You would have to draw such information out of me; you would also have to know that I was abused to ask the right questions to get it out of me.  Hence, no one knew I was being abused.

My mother has always been a very kind and giving woman.  She is charming and loving to many people.  She reads the word of God and she is especially encouraging and insightful unto many, always using the word of God to bring peace and speak peace to many.  She is even hailed today as being head of the Foster Care/Adoption Committee in her church for nearly 25 years.  My mother has much clout and esteem in her surroundings.  This truth of her was a deception to every man and woman outside our home.  It was even a deception unto me as a child.  For so many years I sought to appeal to that “revered’ side.  Still, the abuse carried on until I was 13 years old.  When it stopped, her verbal abuse intensified, and in two of my teenage years I became a masochist: one who cuts his own flesh.  Moreover, my mother was not the core of my masochism.  She was merely the kerosene thrown on the fire.

   

   YOU'VE NEVER MENTIONED DAD'S CONTRIBUTION...

My masochism arose because since the time of my father’s marriage when I was 10 years old, he has always portrayed in his actions having to choose whom he should love more, his wife or me.  He never learned that he didn’t have to choose; all he had to do was love each of us separately with the love God gave him.  As a result, my relationship with my father has always often been stricken, on the rocks, or even threatened to be no more on one occasion, because my relationship with his wife carried much tension.   

These are the reasons why I began to hate and desire to move away from Christianity.  Moreover, the only reason I am a Christian is because Jesus, the person, had been visiting me all along.  He taught me how to love: to love beyond the knowledge of good and evil, since what you know about someone corrupts how you love someone.  He taught me how to forgive.  He taught me how to honor my mother, and understand what He calls honor, even if my mother was my primary abuser.  He taught me how to depend on His fatherhood.  He even taught me that He had his own relationship with the Father which was separate from God’s children and the Holy Spirit (This was something I sought to implement with my own children.).

   HOW HAS IT BEEN HAVING YOUR OWN FAMILY???

Today I am a married man with four children. I have been married for over 7 years. My first son came literally 9 months after we got married: a “Honeymoon baby”.  My greatest relaxation is watching them grow, play, roll around and play practical jokes on me.  I get the greatest peace knowing that they have not been touched, mishandled, or neglected.  My son is almost 6 ½ years old.  At his age I had already been abused, molested, and tortured a number of times.  He will never know what it’s like for his own parent to abuse him.  He will never lack having a father whom loves him unconditionally, since I have personally asked the Lord to judge me every year from his mercy seat in every area of my life.

 WHAT HAS BEEN PEOPLES' REACTIONS AFTER WRITING "HERE I AM"?

Since I have written Here I AM many of my family/friends cannot understand how I was abused.  Much of my family/friends cannot compute how all of a sudden I am stating that I have had face-to-face appearances, and other visitations from the Lord, since I was almost 4 years old.  Much of the confusion comes from me just now deciding to talk about it.  The answer is quite simple.  

I have had the lifelong struggle to make one decision.  I have had to choose: (1) to not break my mother’s heart and destroy her reputation by telling the truth or (2) to testify of my true relationship of Jesus and how it came about.  Since God is God and Jesus, who is the Son of God, has always been faithful to me, even before I was born, I chose to follow Jesus.  I wrote this book in obedience to the Godhead (Father, Son, and Holy Ghost).  

  WHAT WILL BE YOUR ADVICE TO THE YOUNG ONES???

To the children whom are being abused, neglected, tortured and/or molested, I say to you.  Jesus is near.  He has not left you comfortless.  Even if you cannot see Him, He is there with you.  You must know that a moment of pain is worth a lifetime of glory, even if that moment of pain is 15 years long.  God truly desires to make you great—His ways are not your ways; He did not send the evil that was done to you.  He will avenge you, and He will do it with love.  He will teach you how to love those whom hurt you, betray you, disappoint you, and even seek to do evil toward you, even if they are your own family.  The biggest joy you can have is that you love and have the boldness to share your testimony regardless of what people say to you.  That, my friend, is freedom.  

My life will teach my children to be willing to stand for truth (whom is a person and not information: Jesus) even if it means your very life.  This is the example my Lord displayed on the cross.  I’d rather lose the world, friends, family, and all, to gain Jesus, then to gain favor from men and lose even a fraction of intimacy with Jesus.

 

Twitter: The Harbinger—  @Holy_Harbinger

Facebook: JG Houston

Ministry Website:  Hereiaminternational.com

Latest Video:  Is Face to Face with Jesus Real?

Anticipated Video: Interview on Here I AM / Release Date: End of October 2015

Our Story!

We all have been through one drama in our lives, for some of us, it's been stages of drama. Today we think we have had all of it but then a different drama plays out. For some, it has been the relationship drama, family drama, marriage drama, academics, un-employment, should-have-been best friend drama, disappointment, and so on. To some, they wonder why they have to go through these horrible phases, almost like a cycle. They start a new routine today, it looks interesting, everything seems just okay, happiness sips in and BOOM, back to the very beginning, it goes down, pain comes in, nothing seems to be working again, the used to be good time turns out sour and now, we are back to square one.

A senior friend of mine, beautiful, classy, intelligent shared a story with me just last week, quite disturbing and touching. I met her some years back during service year, I realised she wasn't so friendly with guys, she was always on the edge, always irritated, always arguing with them. She could take some kind of insults from ladies but not from a man. I summoned courage and asked why she was always quick to anger and she told me a bit of her story, and it boiled down to disappointment. Apparently she was in a long relationship, both families knew about it, there were promises of marriage and future, only for her to realise he had a family outside the country. Years after service, she stayed single, no job and after three or four years, God blessed her with a good job and she had to relocate. Life started to take a different shape, she had a reason to be happy again. Just few months after relocation, she found this hunk (permit me to use the word) who made her life and stay in her new environment even better. Interestingly, she got the whole zoo in her stomach and not butterflies this time, she was so excited about it. This is the same lady who never changes her Dp for anyone, her Dp on bbm was all about her, her family, her best friends and a few of us (chosen friends) #winks, but it was new, she always had his picture on her dp,hmmmm, my friend was in love. She called me some months back to tell me how interesting her life has been, how she prays I find my mr.right soon and that moment came, you know that moment, we (ladies) always wait for, the "will you marry me" moment, oh yes, it came through, and we were so happy, pictures rolled and hey, it was a new beginning.