Tuesday, 10 May 2016

Husband of deceased Domestic Violence Victim finally found





The man, who allegedly killed his wife in the Egbeda area of Lagos state, Lekan Shonde and went into hiding, had attempted to flee to Benin Republic where he hoped to proceed to Ghana to avoid being arrested for his alleged crime.
The suspect had on Thursday last week, allegedly murdered his wife, Ronke, over claims that she was adulterous.
He on Monday, surrendered himself to the Rapid Response Squad, RRS, of the Lagos State Police Command.
The Kwara State-born suspect, who denied killing his wife, insisted that she was hypertensive and that his wife was his most prized possession hence could not have killed her. He said death was his last intention for her.
Reports say immediately Lekan arrived the Command, he uttered: “I wish death would take me right now.”
While Lekan was in hiding, he reportedly attempted to flee to the Benin Republic where he hoped to proceed to Ghana, but all his moves were reportedly trailed by the Police, until he was forced to make a U-turn from Ondo State.‎


Lekan was said to have sent a message via WhatsApp to one of his friends announcing his intention to commit suicide, in order to end the whole matter, Vanguard reports.
The conversation dated May 7, 2016 read: “I want to die. Pls help me, I can’t face the Police or cell, they will kill me.”
Lekan, however, sent another text, yesterday morning, to this same friend saying, “Morning, Senior Sunday, thanks for everything you have done. I want to go to the CP’s office now.
“You are the only one that advised me not to kill myself. I will respect you till I die.
“I never killed my wife,” the message read.
Upon interrogation at the Command, Lekan insisted he did not kill his wife, although he admitted that there was a quarrel between them a day before she died over infidelity on the part of his late wife.
Lekan said, “The cause of the quarrel was over infidelity. I over-heard her discussing on phone with one Kayode, who was her boss and lover. I never killed my wife.
“We had a normal quarrel after she owned up that she had a man friend. We didn’t talk over-night.
“She held my legs begging, as I was leaving the house that morning. And I pushed her away. As I left the house my son bolted the door behind me.
“Later, our nanny called to alert me of what had happened. I immediately called my landlady’s daughter, who confirmed that my wife was dead and as I was rushing back home, neighbours called to inform me that policemen were there that I should run away. That was why I ran away.
“I loved my wife; all my accounts are in her name. I bought her two cars and would not have wished for a better person as a wife. I did not kill her. She was hypertensive.”
Lekan, who was said to have spoken to a national daily from his hiding on Sunday, said “I never spoke with any journalist until now. The media misquoted me.”
He further disclosed that while in hiding, he contacted his late wife’s alleged lover to inform him of the trouble he had put his entire family into.
“I called Kayode and said ‘hope you have succeeded in ruining my marriage,’ and he apologized to me.”
One Gbenga Soloki, friend of the suspect who was present at the command, demanded for forensic investigation.
Soloki said: “When we got the information, as law abiding citizens, we asked him to come out of hiding. I know him as a gentle man; his account proved it, but unfortunately, his wife is not alive to state her side of the story.”
Meanwhile, the Manager Public and Government Affairs, Mobil Oil, Akin Fatunke, has denied that Lekan ever worked with the organisation.
“We don’t have any member of staff by name Lekan Shonde in our Apapa depot, it is obviously an error,” Fatunke stated.
Source: Daily Post.

Some friends share their thoughts on Domestic Violence




The beautiful Ebony, Ogechi Okoro, a medical lab scientist speaks:‎

I think domestic violence is a community problem and not personal and should be treated as such, most of us know someone(a neighbor,friend, colleague,family) going through domestic violence right now but we do nothing for the fear of being termed nosey, we ll rather choose to "mind our business". It takes a lot for a victim to speak up and report the abuse then we hear things like, "its a family case" from even our police that swore to protect us. How then are these victims supposed to get help? Most are shamed into accepting the blame, they crawl back to their partners. Some however decide to cover up for the bully in the name of "am staying for my kids" I still don't understand how its better to raise a child in such toxic environment, the boys will grow up thinking its ok to beat  women and the cycle continues. Some are lucky to escape with their lives, others not so much. As hard as it may be most women see the signs even when still courting but they simply conceal it cos the want to get married or believe they ll change. I think we should be our neighbors keeper, that woman that always covers bruises with sunglasses, the one that always claims to have had a domestic accident? Talk to her, make her comfortable to talk to you, don't blame her or spread the gossip, assure her its ok to speak up, we have lot of NGOs that can help her, all she needs is your help. 




From the Media Personality, Elo-Oghene Oletu says; 

On domestic violence:  A horror to any family and loved ones. never saw my parents fight but nevertheless saw some scarring scenario while I was in the university, terrible beatings that scarred the girl so bad that I just don't get why she could not walk away. but fortunately, the story ends well because after graduation, she meets someone else, got married and now enjoys peace.
But the question is why would a man hit a woman, is it as a result of psychology trauma of watching the same with their parents or just plain madness?



Esther Chiazor, CEO Uchyzz Event planning and Catering services also has this to say about Domestic Violence;

We need to understand  that women are amazing and wonderful, everybody makes mistakes. There isn't any perfect relationships found in the history of research and we human should never let our emotions take over us by anger and other means.
When we fall prey to violence we expose ourselves to the effects of violence against women such as:
1 it leads to a broken relationship, this is because human emotions is powerful and the mind of man is an important tool to change things for better than good or destroy happiness.
2 it leads to a broken home, wen couples ain't about peace, they need up in destruction... So,because of mistakes and lack of forgiveness.
3 lack of solutions and satisfaction to a lady and sincerity can lead to unfaithfulness, the truth is important to every women and your in abilities to tell the truth can lead to many crazy events such as cheating, lies, bad words etc, etc.
4 women are every emotional and their hearts is just like the diadem of diamonds, as a man when you ain't doing the right thong s, it can lead to suicide and that can put a,an on trouble or have him spend the great of his life in prison.
5 lacks of sacrifice can lead a woman  into cheating and mess. Simply because you ain't doing the right things.
6 women are like flowers, without water, they are out of beauty...I mean emotional beauty, physical beauty, and spiritual beauty and these can lead to problems in relationship or marriage.
7 women are powerful, that simply mean they can do any thing to have their or ,an back to them wen the love is great and ready to kill or die.
8 when a man talks over everything and don't let go, it leads to emotional break down and suicide mission to take the man away from his life's purpose and both parts will end up useless.




From a man's perspective, Mr. Chival an OAP shared his opinion;

Domestic violence  sounds like aggressive behavior within the home, typically involving the violent abuse of a spouse or partner,the general view that comes to mind is a man hitting a woman,and then the mind judgment happens,the man is evil...how about its a
moment of the other saying,its enough,a man can hit a woman and a woman can hit a man,except that men are ashamed to admit it that's why there are few cases, there is uncontrolled temper rise,and then the body begins to adjust to what finally quenches the temper and finally addictive....the effect is for the one who succumbs,that one loses confidence within the home and accepts even a beating,with the believe that it will satisfy the beater,so they put in their personal life.‎




Sophie, bestie and IT personnel also shared her thoughts; 

I would say the moment you even perceive it....RUN. RUN as fast as you can and never ever look back,dont even think about it for a second coz it aint worth it. Why would you want to be a punching bag for another person,why? You are far to precious for that.
If you are a victim it would affect you not only physically  (for all to see) but emotionally,mentally,psychologically......
Ohhh and this is just a summary of what i have to say. These culprits should be severely dealt with coz they even go as far as hurting children,innocent children.  Please dont even get me started on this topic


Monday, 9 May 2016

Meet our MCM





Richard is a Sports Journalist fondly called "Richie". A native of Atta Ikeduru in Imo state. He was born in Enugu state.

Richard is a graduate of Mass Communication. His Radio journey started  in 2006 when he served as an intern at the Federal Radio Corporation of Nigeria Enugu. Since then he has gone on to work for Nasarawa Broadcasting Service and Solid 100.9 fm Enugu.

Richard joined KU 92.7FM BENIN on Oct 2014 as a pioneer staff.  He presents and reports sports stories. He also doubles as a content producer and a News reader. 
As part of his achievements, The Nigerian broadcasters merit awards has nominated Richard twice for the Best sports caster south East and south south in 2014 and 2015.  There is barely a dull moment with Richie, he is notorious for creating a boisterous atmosphere.




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A trip to Ozanam House for the homeless







It's been a ritual for me each year to visit the motherless or the homeless. It doesn't matter how much or what go with, but the heart that brings them out.

The Ozanam House is a home for the homeless, they have been in existence for quite a while and maintained a good and reliable standard over the year. This year I will be visiting them with friends and Fam to make it a memorable one for them. A Lil birthday gift from me to them.

You can also join the train.

#ShowALilKindness

For someone who needs this.




If you're interested in radio and ready to relocate to Ibadan, this is for you.

Wish you the very best.

God's beauty...




Check out the breath taking photo of a baby taking via c-section but was till inside the amniotic sac.
The amniotic sac is an opaque bubbles or a bag of fluid where unborn babies develop and grow. In some situations, the sac is broken by the doctor when a woman is ready to give birth. Sometimes it breaks once the baby is ready to come out, this is when they refer to a mother's water  breaking.
Amazing what our body can do. Amazing how God works.

Sunday, 8 May 2016

OAP MAMA T SET TO LEAVE THE SINGLES LEAGUE




After spending twelve years in the coal city, she decided to leave the city for somewhere new and never return to coal city. But as love  will always find us in the strangest places, Mama T met that man who has given her a reason to still be a part of Enugu State, it's home forever. Love indeed is a beautiful thing, their story is one you'd envy any day.

Check out beautiful pre wedding photos of the beautiful couple. Congrats love.






Happy Mothers' Day




Not so sure how many Mothers' Day we have, but I guess we should never tire of celebrating them any day, anytime. They're powerful, strong, loveable, caring, prayerful, hard working, adorable. I love my mum.


My Mother.

Who sat and watched my infant head?  When sleeping on my cradle bed, and tears of sweet affection shed? My Mother.

When pain and sickness made me cry, Who gazed upon my heavy eye, and wept for fear that I should die? My Mother.

Who taught my infant lips to pray and love God's holy book and day, and walk in wisdoms pleasant way? My Mother.

And can I ever cease to be affectionate and kind to thee, who was so very kind to me? My Mother.




Ah, no! The thought I cannot bear, and if God please my life to spare, I hope I shall reward thy care, My Mother.

When thou art feeble, old and grey, my healthy arm shall be thy stay, and I will soothe thy pains away. My Mother.