Relationships seem tough and things don't get easier as time goes on, oh well that's what I've always thought or experienced. I love the idea, I love the pet names, I love the first few months, I love every emotional signal, I love that there's someone to disturb, someone that is ready to listen. I've been off any relationship for a while now, almost looks like I'm used to being single, #Hehe, but that's the truth tho. Allow me blow my trumpet a bit, i'm one who is loyal, respectable, loveable, caring, open as a book, just think of those good qualities that at the end would make you like you're worshipping the nigga, hmm....dont get me wrong o, I have faults ooo, I love perfection, I love to see things done in order, I attended a convent you know, so I've got some morals *winks*, had to leave the convent because it wasn't my calling biko, I can serve God and still be married. So I decided last year to work on myself very well, work on my faults, correct the wrongs from the last relationship.
Hmmm, I indeed learnt a a lot from my last relationship, I was always paranoid, complained over nothing, and hey, finally, it crumbled *laughs*, painful but.... I picked up the pieces as a strong girl na even though I bruised but it was gentle.
Lately I've seen people in relationships and they all look happy, excited and it just makes me miss having someone around, not someone i'd share but someone who i'd confidently call "Bae", I actually haven't genuinely used that word since its usage o, come to think of it, that's actually true. I had a friend of mine pick up a pack of sanitary towel for me at everyday emporium and it sounded so sweet to hear him call me "bae", well he did so because he was shy picking it up, guess he wanted the attendants to think he was getting it for his girlfriend,lol.
Been rehearsing some good names to use for "papa Ginika" that's my soon-to-be-boyfriend. I haven't seen him but I need suggestions tho. Done with hanging out with luchi and yinka, I need me a Bae moment. *picks race*. By the way I fixed my nails after years, really difficult typing. Thanks to Tina Charles.
Hahahhahahahahah!!!! Clare Ezeakacha..
ReplyDeleteYea, she doesn't lack words..
I smile each time I read from her..
Such intelligent young lass.. beauty with brains..
Suggestions:
Baby
Nkem
Honey
Obim
And the list goes on and on...
Hehehhehehe
Papa Ginika, I hope u read this too?? Lol
Timi you know this? I'm learning for you na #BayelsaNinja *picks race
DeleteKeep faith my dear, you'll laugh last.
ReplyDeleteLol...u impossibly sweet...nice piece! I could connect to every word, we have all had our painful bit of heart bruises...pain so deep it doesn't bleed, so sore u can't apply first aid...rebruised every time her name comes on.. & for days it lingers until 1 day I just couldn't feel anymore...not for her, not for anyone....& then I knew I was broken I needed to fix masef..*Tears ddnt cut it for me cuz I don't belive in tears, it's a waste of salt water* or maybe ma tear glands are dehydrated-Pain won't get em moist!Weeks turned into months then years roll bye and I let time do its trick, was ma first love, was suppose to be ma true love yeah?? She was ma only& i was Loyal to a bloody fuck...but then sometimes the good ones get hurt!
ReplyDeleteFor a long time I told masef love was a weakness..*what do u expect?? I needed to heal and I could only pick ma resolution from something; anything* but now am good, log a friends helped me work shit out, alcohol did it's part, sex didn't, God was nice to me too!
Oh and Blad speaks. #Deep. For a man who learnt how to control time with arts and concept. True words Blad, they hurt deeply, but I love that you said "you allowed time do the trick". I love me some Ojay anyday mahn. *bear hug honey*
DeleteAwwww, So touching bro..
ReplyDeleteGot tears in my eyes..
Mscheeeeeeeew
Iove can be silly sometimes.. however, glad u were able 2 move on..
Blad.. "a man with a golden heart"
I love him like "wat is it?"...
Ojay...
Salute to the real Blad...u know ama take a bullet for you right??
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DeleteI am actually speechless but Clare has a gun to my head and she demands I post a comment... In case y'all don't know me... I am the boo *dodges stones* *picks race*
ReplyDeletelol...dont even know what to write....I've never really been inlove sha,or maybe i've been inlove,but she didnt show me the same...Relationship to me is all about caring...All the ladies i dated in the past are still friends with me,who doesnt like a playful and caring guy?(yes i am )..I like beautiful women sha,and i want my next relationship to lead to marriage.
ReplyDeleteMy name is YINKA
Well...its what it is, At some point a mans' gotta do what a mans' afraid to do; u can't fight Fate! I believe as long as u'v done ur part;against all odds, against ur conscience??Then I think you good...If that nigga/chique wana walk?? Ask em' to bounce. *#noTime to mop over spilled sour milk*..Life like a mirage, nothing is real! (But Claire u know u are real yeah?? )Gat cwazy lav' for u too bae-bee :*
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ReplyDeleteYour ability to write about things personal about you is fabulous; it highlights your strong mental attitude.
ReplyDeleteRelationship, for me, is beautiful! The issues are only as a result of progression- two minds shaping into one, you can always expect noise in this process. But if the two understood that they were in to give, support, build... they'd rise above every noise.
I am single now. I keep my eyes and mind open and I see really beautiful women, I love beauty! Am I ready for a new relationship? Yes. @Clare, will I call you? Probably. Why not? *smiles*
Thanks plenty Cyril. *smiles
DeleteAwwww. Love's such a beautiful thing but beyond the calculated looks I have discovered that most people we think are so peaceful in their relationships actually have terrible issues and it's the fear of breaking out that makes them linger on, my dad would always say *na cloth cover all of us body*cos if not we for de see wonders. Some people paint theirs so beautiful but check well, they have a great falling apart inside it. Being in love is thrilling and the magic is indescribable, mostly with the right person. Suggestions for papa-Ginika * are: Boo, ma carinos -spanish way of saying *my darlyn*, Sweet, ma cielo-means *my love*. Etc.
ReplyDeleteAmaaaaaazing, true words sisi. "Ma carinos".....I like!
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ReplyDelete...hnmmm....so am expected to comment..ok ooo. Let me start by saying that I had my share of relationships yes with S...wouldn't say I was broken...had the rough and sweet ones..was looking for perfection until she made me realise that am the imperfect one... for 3years I sat in her friend zone U know what that means... The more I listened to her imperfections the more I saw her perfections..Here I am about to celebrate my 1yr anniversary of marital bliss come December 20 with my imperfect perfect queen I call Bestie!!yea thats our pet name ....clare name has been copyrighted����...my point is that when we stop looking for perfections we will find perfections in our imperfections.. Love is more than just the happy nd romantic periods its more about clinging together during the bad days and understanding that there is no perfect being With a perfect life... Having said that..Papa Ginika am impatiently waiting for my drink..Look beyond My Sisi imperfections and give her that ���� wit a solid���� on it and please make sure you do it in the most romantic way or else she will turn u down...picks race*** time for a wee cuddle..������
ReplyDeleteAnd my cousin speaks. Love love you pieces.
DeleteHahaha... Emmm dunno if I hv suggestions oh cos am just as rusty as you are! *laffs*
ReplyDeleteHahaha... Emmm dunno if I hv suggestions oh cos am just as rusty as you are! *laffs*
ReplyDeletei saw papa ginika running towards you....so better start practicing
ReplyDeletestart saying it so u get used to it
bae
bae
bae
bae
bae
bae
bae
bae
bae
bae
bae
bae
bae
had enof yet?
and yes love is indeed a beautiful thing. had my share of stories and dramas too
God help us all
"Done with hanging out with luchi and yinka, I need me a Bae moment. *picks race*."
ReplyDeleteClare, Luchi, I don't know but Yinka ooo, u don't finish d dude.
Nice piece!