Newton's third law of motion states that "for every action, there is an equal but opposite reaction". This seems to be very correct in the world of science but a lot of people have brought the things that govern the world of science into every part of life and most times, the results are detrimental to them.
In our relationships, different set of rules apply here. Most times, for every action, there is not always an equal or opposite reaction. Sometimes, there is no reaction at all, at other times, the reaction is slow to come hence most actions have taken place and this makes the heart grow weak if actually you were expecting an equal reaction from your partner.
Every time you begin to act according to the newton's law of motion by always expecting an equal reaction when you do something, it means you are not in love rather you are playing a game of hearts because love is not meant to give back, LOVE IS JUST ACTUALLY MEANT TO GIVE.
So for instance, you do something for your partner on his/her birthday, don't expect that they would do exactly the same for you on your birthday. Also if your partner does something for you, don't equate it be that he/she is reciprocating a previous kind gesture of yours, if you operate that way, then your love is questionable.
When he/she does something for you, don't think in your heart that you must do back for him/her, just decide to always be the giver. What if they haven't given at a particular time, does it means you would wait for them to give something first or you wouldn't do anything for them?
Finally, to enjoy your relationship, always appreciate whatever your partner does for you. Be the one taking the actions always. ALWAYS DO THE LITTLE THINGS THAT YOUR PARTNER LIKES THAT REALLY COSTS NOTHING. Remember to always love unconditionally, don't make your action a reaction. Remember LOVE IS NOT MEANT TO GIVE BACK, LOVE IS ACTUALLY JUST MEANT TO GIVE.
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Generally love is meant to gv...time,money,emotions,everything i must say.
ReplyDeleteNever forget the golden rule "do unto others ....."
Love is indeed beautiful. Priceless gift.
ReplyDeleteI totally agree
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