I want to use this medium to appeal to men who for reasons known to them raise their hands on the wives they promised to love forever. And to also appeal to the ladies to work on themselves, learn how to control your words, because they pierce deep and kills the soul.
Anger is a vice we all need to pray against, we actually need the Holy spirit to help us with this. I'm also talking to myself,been working on my anger and so far i'd say I am way way better than I was last year, 6 months ago and last month, change is slow but it comes in when you're determined to make a change.
I have watched a woman at the airport, talk rudely at her husband openly, I closely watched the man's reaction, his face turned red, he was full of embarrassment, and she kept on talking and ranting. I also watched a lady slap a man in a bank just because he mistakenly hit her bag, oh yes, she got the beating of her life, I am not saying that was the best he could do, NO, I just think we need to control ourselves.
While you think you're so angry and mad about something, he may just not be in the mood, he may be bothered about something, don't push your luck. Men are humans too, they may loose it someday, but all the same, dear sweet honey sugar pie husbands and boy friends please do not hit a woman. My dad would advise you "take a walk", cool off outside please.
Real Men don't hit women...regardless how temperament he may be, there's no excuse to hit a woman.Women express themselves through emotions(nagging, screaming, arguing...) once a man understands this, he would know how to handle his woman. Human ain't born monsters, we become em!' Self control is key.Hitting a woman is a Sin...No questions'
ReplyDeleteWord!!! @Ojay I also found out some ladies feel they are well loved when their husbands or boyfriends hit them. Different strokes right? Though I can't and will never understand such mystery
DeleteOh dear! It's very hard to hit a woman you love. But I don't understand why a woman would believe that nagging will get things done. Make your complaint with love, humility and submission, and he will do exactly what you want done.
ReplyDeleteNagging is pure foolishness! Don't always believe that he has to drive out or take a walk before you stop whining. Because a day will come and he will beat the shit out you.
No, I don't support beating your wife; it's pure evil but on the other hand, is how some ladies learn. Too bad!
Marry for LOVE, not money. Money should be part of the equation but shouldn't be the ultimate.
Marry a wonderful man, honor him, submit to him... and save yourself some 'beatings'.
Never say he will change; ppl don't change like that.
I love the part you talked about change. Really, people don't change like that. What do you make of a lady who loves her husband hitting her, cos she feels loved that way
Delete@Clare, the lady maybe feeling helpless and/or that she has to live with this pain she's put herself into. No one enjoys pain- no, nobody!
ReplyDeleteWell spoken!
ReplyDeleteYippe! And Barby speaks. Thanks hun
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