10 Brand of men you should never marry by Gift Jonah

Hi guys, I hope you enjoy this write up. *smiles*

• Someone who doesn’t have a relationship with God.

   If a man doesn’t have a relationship with his creator, how then can he handle a relationship with you? If he doesn’t accept God’s love and love him back, then he is not capable of loving himself talk more of loving you. This is where true love starts from.

• Someone whose physical appearance doesn’t please you.

    I wrote same in my last article. Physical appearance is very important because that is one of the ingredients that spice up the romance. It is vital to marry a man you are proud of his looks, a man you want to show off to all your friends or anyone who cares to ask.

• Someone who is already married.

    Yes.... He is married so why consider him to be your husband material? No lady wants to be a second fiddle except you think within you that you can’t get someone better that is single.

• Someone who is a thief; meaning someone who is jobless or unproductive

    It is very unwise to marry a man who doesn’t have a job, business or potentials. You need to tell yourself the bitter truth. How does he intend to cater for you and foot the bills? When a man is jobless and unproductive, he becomes aggressive and insecure and before you know it conflicts begin to creep in.
My advice to you will be, if you truly love him so much and he is talking marriage, advice and support him to get a job first. It’s for the good of both of you. #HardTruth

• Someone who is not under higher authority

    No matter how hard, tough and stubborn a person is, there is always someone who can talk to that person and get them to listen and make amends positively. If he doesn’t have someone he listens to or someone he is accountable to, then it’s a clear sign that he feels he is above all authority or feels he is not answerable to anyone except himself. That is clearly not a good sign.

• Someone who is overly angry.

    Anger that is always over the top can possibly lead to abuse and once abuse (minor or major) sets in, sweetheart,  it has come to stay. Except you fall under the category of "if he loves me, he should beat me to correct me".

• Someone who abuses you as a lady

    If he doesn’t regard you or talk down at you in public or maybe threatens to slap you in public or even in private then my dear think twice about that dude of yours.

• Someone who is a stranger

    Your man should be your friend and best pal not a stranger. If you see him as a stranger rather than a friend, then its wise to keep searching, continue the search, advertise the search if possible.

• Someone most of your love ones or family disapproves of: 

    Like they say the voice of men is the voice of God. If majority of your family members or friends disapprove of your partner, you should watch it and reconsider your decision.

• Someone who is not willing to marry you: Don’t be too pushy about marriage, men love to be the chaser. If he is not taking about marriage yet then it probably means he is not into you or seeing you in that light yet. Love should be two sided, if he is not showing interest or commitment then you should not push it. Time waits for no one o. Be wise. Your boo might just have a boo. loool

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